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NSW Bureau of Crime release statistics on Domestic Violence in NSW Dec 2018

Late last week I attended a lecture at UTS revealing the NSW Bureau of Crime statistics and research into Domestic Violence. We are committed to being at the forefront of developments in this area and advocating for change and understanding wherever possible. It was great to hear that the NSW Government is committed to reducing Domestic Violence and addressing this chronic issue.

A key driver of these studies is to find a baseline to measure future developments in this area. The rest of the information to be taken away from the research was not so positive.

The study measured the effectiveness of six programs that have been implemented to try and address both re-victimization and re-offending and the bottom line is that these programs have been evaluated as ineffective with the exception of one program, a compulsory program lasting 9 – 12 months with weekly cognitive behavior therapy (CBT). Most notably this program was offered to perpetrators that were in gaol and it was compulsory.

The similar program for non-incarcerated offenders, offering 20 x 2 hour CBT sessions only had a 50% completion rate and was found to be ineffective.

Another of the studies looked at ways of determining who would be likely to re-victimized. This I found most disturbing but in light of the many women I’ve worked with and supported both legally and through more general advocacy I should not have been surprised. The measures taken were ineffective in assessing the likelihood or risk of someone being re-victimized and 70% of women who were re-victimized were not identified by the risk assessment tool.

It is no wonder that so many women feel both desperate and hopeless in the face of DV.

These studies, it should be noted, were only funded to look at those cases of DV which included grievous bodily harm and as most people would be aware Domestic Violence is far more insidious than that and a fuller description can be found on DVNSW website. If you are unsure read through this list of actions that constitute domestic violence:


  • Swearing and continual humiliation, either in private or in public

  • Attacks following clear themes that focus on intelligence, sexuality, body image and capacity as a parent or partner.

  • Putting someone down


  • Driving dangerously

  • Destruction of your property

  • Abuse of pets in front of family members

  • Making threats regarding custody of any children

  • Asserting that the police and justice system will not assist, support or believe the victim


  • Blaming the victim for all problems in the relationship

  • Constantly comparing the victim with others to undermine self-esteem and self-worth

  • Sporadic sulking

  • Withdrawing all interest and engagement (for example weeks of silence)

  • Emotional blackmail and suicidal threats

  • Threats to harm oneself, pets, children or other family members